A virus - a very bad viral illness has affected our family. DH was very very ill for a few months a few yrs back - temp of 105, didn't recognise me. Well that has damaged him, or rather scarred/ blocked things, and it's not repairable. Our only option for children is IVF - every time.
Not what either of us wanted obviously, and we have to wait now to see whether that was the only damage done. We're scared, relieved, desperately crossing our fingers.. and ultimately waiting. We've had pregnancies/ miscarriages before (prob down to my endometriosis), so this is something else to take in. Guess it's a plea to you guys out there - if you're ill, don't be pig-headed about it, get help, see the Dr, don't ignore it.
